Julie: I am free to do what makes me happy
How many times in your life have you put off doing something just for yourself? For many women, especially those who spend years looking after others or pouring energy into their work and families, it becomes second nature to put their own dreams on the back burner. We get used to hiding, to making ourselves small, or telling ourselves, “Maybe one day, when things are quieter or I feel more ready…”
But life rarely gives us the “perfect” moment. Sometimes, it takes a little leap of courage—and a willingness to be truly seen—to shake things up and remind ourselves that we are allowed to take up space, to celebrate who we are, and to step forward into a new chapter with confidence.
Julie’s journey is such a powerful example of this kind of courage. Her story is about more than simply having her photograph taken. It’s about deciding that she was ready to say yes to herself, to step outside her comfort zone, and to embrace the fullness of who she is at this moment in her life.
Why Portraits Matter—Especially Now
There’s something magical that happens when you finally give yourself permission to be witnessed, not just by others but by yourself. Portrait experiences like Julie’s aren’t about chasing perfection or looking a certain way for someone else. They’re about honouring your journey—every step, every struggle, every transformation that’s brought you here.
For many women, the camera has long felt like an enemy: something to avoid, a reminder of insecurities or times when we didn’t feel “enough.” But in the right space, with the right support, the lens becomes a tool for healing and empowerment. It becomes a mirror that reflects back strength, beauty, softness, and authenticity—even in the places you may have doubted those qualities existed.
Embracing Vulnerability, Celebrating Change
Stepping in front of the camera can be vulnerable, especially when you’re marking a transition, facing new challenges, or emerging from a season that required every ounce of your strength. That’s why I approach every session as a collaboration—an open invitation for you to bring your real self, your ideas, and even your nerves.
With Julie, as with so many women I work with, it wasn’t just about “posing for pictures.” It was about creating an experience that felt supportive, gentle, and genuine—where she could breathe, show up as herself, and maybe even surprise herself in the process.
This is where transformation truly happens: not in a dramatic makeover or in trying to become someone else, but in realising that you’re already enough, right now. Julie’s session was a celebration of this truth. She allowed herself to explore, to be playful, and to let her inner strength shine through.
The Ripple Effect of Self-Acceptance
What’s most powerful about stories like Julie’s is how they ripple out beyond the session itself. When you see yourself through new eyes, it can shift something deep inside—a new confidence, a softer way of relating to yourself, and sometimes even a willingness to show up more boldly in other parts of your life.
And when other women witness these transformations—when they read Julie’s words or see her portraits—they often feel their own quiet nudge to step forward, too. That’s the gift of visibility: it gives us all permission to hope for more, to believe that change and self-acceptance are possible at any age or stage.
Your Own Fearless Chapter
If Julie’s story speaks to you, know that you’re not alone. Maybe you’re longing for a confidence boost, a reminder of your worth, or just a moment to celebrate the woman you are right now. Whatever your “why,” you deserve to be seen and honoured.
Portrait sessions like these aren’t about being “fearless” in the absence of doubt—they’re about finding the courage to show up, even when your heart is pounding. They’re about trusting the process, letting yourself be guided, and walking away with more than just beautiful images: a real sense of pride and self-acceptance.
Now, let’s hear directly from Julie, in her own words…
Julie’s Story
I’ve spent majority of my life feeling like I had to please others and do what others wanted to make them proud of me, or to get their acceptance, and not be judged. But I then realised no one else’s opinions of me mattered. I should be free to do what makes me happy even if others disagree, if they don’t like the way I live my life that’s there problem not mine and I shouldn’t have to change.
What do you want from life, talk to me about your dreams?
I’m finally in a place in my life where I’m happy and grateful for what I have so there isn’t much I want except to maintain that feeling and maybe help others see they can do the same as me and enjoy life.
What brings you joy?
My 2 year old son brings me the most joy, since having him I’ve changed my perception and my mental attitude so that the thing I love most about myself is my ability to try and stay positive when others try to bring me down and my ability to keep fighting for my happiness.
What makes you most proud of yourself?
Looking back at my accomplishments. I gave birth naturally to a 9lb 12oz baby! I ended toxic relationships I chose to raise my child in lock down on my own whilst dealing with heartache. I’ve overcome a lot of hurt and heartbreak and it’s made me love myself and that’s what I’m proud of.
How do you find strength when you go through tough days?
For me it’s about positive mental attitude. When I have a bad day I tell myself it won’t last forever and things will get better.
What little things make you feel grateful to be alive?
My sons smile and his cheeky laugh. When he says new words makes my heart melt ♥️
What do you want to do more each day?
Sleep! 😂 I’m joking (well not really as working full time and being a single mum is tiring) but I want less stress and more laughs everyday. What do you envision your life to be in 5 years?I don’t ask for much just a comfortable life for me and my son. A house with a garden, a job I enjoy and financially stable.
What 3 things would you change in the world if you had power to make them happen?
Judgement! Hate that people still judge if you don’t fit into the social “norm”
Coronvirus! That has messed up the whole world and so many people have suffered in and out of lockdown.
Equality. For example gender and race are still not equal.
What advice would you give to your 20 year old self?
Stop being so impatient but I wouldn’t change anything in my life. It’s not been easy but all the hurt was worth it and made me the person I am today.
Why were the photographs important to you now?
Beautiful photos are always important but these ones show me looking happy, confident, amazing and strong! Having them hanging up is a constant reminder of my capabilities and always makes me smile and keeps me going.
More Than Images. A Mirror for Your Next Chapter.
If you’re rebuilding, rebranding or stepping into bigger visibility, let’s create portraits that feel honest and work hard for your business. I’m based in Coylton, South Ayrshire, and photograph on-location across Ayrshire, Glasgow and nearby. Book a pressure-free consultation to see if we are a good fit.
